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Couples Counseling FAQs

Making the choice to seek Couples Counseling is often a scary first step that involves admitting that things are not perfect in your partnership. It requires both partners are willing to actively participate in addressing the issues and concerns that are preventing them from experiencing the relationship they want.

Here are some frequently asked questions that make it easier for you to take that first step.

Why do people usually seek couples counseling?
Sometimes we need  help removing the obstacles to a good relationship Couples seek counseling because they value their partner, their partnership, and the quality of life it provides them. We all want assurance from our partners when we’re upset. We feel unsettled when we’re emotionally disconnected. We’re more confident when we know our partners have our backs. These are the fundamentals building blocks of a good partnership, and sometimes we need outside help to remove the obstacles to a good relationship.
What does Couples Therapy look like?
Sessions are generally 50-55 min long, but we can negotiate for a longer time if our schedules allow. The 1st session is an assessment to gather background information from you and your partner. In the 2nd and 3rd sessions I usually meet with partners individually to understand your relationship histories. Starting with the 4th session, we’ll will all meet together so I can get a sense of how you interact as a couple. There may be times I might request to meet individually with one or both of you again if issues come up that impact your ability to feel safe and vulnerable in the relationship.
How long do we have to be in marriage counseling?
You don't have to be in therapy You don't have to do anything! But if you want to make your relationship better, I'd suggest a commitment to at least six months of weekly sessions. In cases where your conflicts are long-standing and your wounds are deep, healing may take longer. The thing is, your current patterns of relating to one another were there long before you even met your partner. What is six months, a year, or even two years in the context of your life together?
Will you see me individually and also see me and my partner as a couple?
It's complicated If I start seeing you for individual counseling, I’ll become partial to your perspective, which would make me a biased 3rd person looking into your couple relationship. For that reason, I cannot go on to work with both you and your partner and would need to refer you to another colleague for couples counseling. Similarly, if I'm seeing you as a couple it will be difficult for me to continue seeing either of you as an individual unless we terminate the couples counseling path. If this is important we'll need to have a deeper discussion
What if my partner stops coming in? Can I continue to see you individually?
Yes, provided both partners are aware of the arrangement.  If for whatever reason, couples counseling is terminated and one of you wants to continue individual counseling with me, I can see you individually, provided that both partners are aware of this arrangement. If in the future, both partners want to resume couples counseling, we’ll need to refer you to a different couple’s therapist for the reasons mentioned above. In some cases, we might determine it’s in your best interest to do individual work with a different provider all together.
We can’t find childcare. Can we bring our child into our couple sessions?
I counsel against bringing children or pets to a session.  It has been done before, but I really don’t recommend it. The type of therapy we'd be doing invites all of us to be tuned in to what’s happening in the room. A cute child will likely be a distraction. It might also be difficult to open up about certain things when your child is listening.
It sounds like we meet for weekly sessions. Can we meet less often than that?
Yes we can, but I would recommend we don't. Here's why. For the first four sessions, it’s important to meet weekly so I can get a chance to know you, your histories, and how you relate. Irregular scheduling inevitably means spending a lot of the time recapping what happened since our last session, and we end up losing the momentum we’ve gained. Put simply, you can accomplish more in six months of weekly couples therapy than you will in one year of biweekly counseling.

LET’S CONNECT

If you want to find out more about how couples therapy can help you better understand yourself, strengthen your connection to each other, and build a relationship that can bring lasting, positive changes in your lives; I invite you to connect with me to schedule a free 30-minute consultation. I can answer any questions you might have and see if we’re a good fit to help you find your better self.

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Amy-Ann Mayberg,
MA, LMFT

3209 W. 76th Street Suite 304
Edina, MN 55435

(612) 444-6463
aamayberg@act-llc.us

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